"Dealing with poor past behaviours and stress coping patterns I now think part of me had been angry for a long time. Even when things at home were okay, it didn’t take too much to get me going. I guess I was just one of those blokes who kept working my arse off; hoping that one day it would all turn out alright … well it didn’t. MENDS really helped me go through my life and sort things out; actually to start again I suppose; and with the same wife."